Friendship

Now normally I would be starting my lame speeches with weird questions... so...

Like the title as you can see above, it's pronounced friendship ( I don't know if it'll make any difference since I'm not actually saying it :D). The question would be, do you know what friendship really is? Like REALLY know it?

Sure everyone has their own definition of a friendship and I as a humble person, a servant to be more exact am not against them just to be clear. But the real question that I wanted to post was, WHY are we even friends in the first place? What was the REASON of our friendship? Normally if we were kids we would find the first person that catches our eyes and say something like "Hi" or if you're more blunt with your actions you would just say "Would you be my BEST friend?"

That's quite typical for kids, children but we're way beyond that era now I presume. Teenagers aren't any straight forward and immature beings as we have developed a few skills of our own so there has to be at least some reason why we became friends with the person we're with now.

Most people (don't be offended ) when asked why did you become friends? They have completely no answer what so ever. Either that or they would say they don't know why they were friends in the first place and say stuff like do I NEED a reason to be friends? Well for a moment there I thought that that would be a cool thing to say and that just might be one of the nicest things to say but sadly, life doesn't work that way.

Everyone has their reasons why they pick a certain person to be their friends weather you believe it or not. It might be that this person listens to you better or it might be that that person can keep a secret better, or it might just be because of the money and all the cool stuff they own. But for all these reasons, a person has concluded that once they ( the so called friends ) are not up to your expectations, you just end up throwing them away because they don't listen anymore, because they don't know how to keep secrets anymore, because now they're poor. Or in other words they're completely useless to you. Only then will you start saying things like "What kind of friend are you?" or maybe "Some friend you are."

So why are we friends any way?

Well, just a little tip in life sometimes the best friend you have might not be the friend you think you would have. That's why your childhood friend ends up becoming your arch enemy.

True friends don't let you be a half-cooked egg.

Literally...

They wont just let you do things that you might regret in the after life...

In fact, they would go through the hard times and the happy times with you and remember you when you're not there by their side.

And true friends ADVICE you to not do the bad things you're about to do and not leave you behind in every bad occasions. They don't judge you, they HELP you to be a better person you are then before, though sometimes you don't shine, they MAKE you shine just as much at the least. A friend in need is a friend indeed,  they didn't make that quote for fun.

So just think about it... are you a true friend? Because you know what turns around comes around.

So...

peace and out! :)